Ouch my hymen breaking!?!?

I dont really ever wanna have sex because im scared of what it will feel like !! My mom said that is was a 5 out of 10... 10 being realy painfull. Someone please tell me what it feels like. Rate it 1-10. 1 being not bad at all and 10 beig ouch! Its hurt so bad! Or please compare it to something. A bee bight. Scraped knee??? Thanks<3